Saturday, June 21, 2008

A nite out with my closest fren

last nite after work, my fren n i decided to go out for a nite of get together at east coast park. b4 dat, we went to do some shopping for the university applications, her flowers and my slippers (didnt managed to get) at causeway point.

when we were having our dinner there, there was one couple who was sitting beside us on our right side. the guy had the drink in his hand and suddenly, his drink dripped onto his set meal. (we were eating long john at dat time) all of a sudden, i heard something thrown onto the table/wall. so i turned over my head n saw the set meal in a mess n everything in dat plate was everywhere now. i was like... Zzzzz.... in my mind, i was like going, "wtf is wrong wif dat guy? onli a spill of water n he throw his plate like dat?" of course i didnt really care abt him at dat time. after he left, my fren was telling me dat the couple had a quarrel, dats y the guy reacted like dat. then i was tinking, even if they were to quarrel, at least be more considerate n responsible rite. this is the public, nt their house, ppl still need to use the table. like dat anyhw mess up the place n expect others to clean up for u? come on man, young guy. u are still so young (according to his build n looks la) n u are already so irresponsible n inconsiderate, nx time when u get older, hw are u going to be like? haiz...

nwadays i was tinking y couples always fight n quarrel for? for my entire 4yr+ (close to 5yrs already) wif my gf, i hv never even quarrelled wif her. all the most is we did hav a bit of a tiny whiny 'angry' on some things. but i always give in, cos in nature, i dunwan to see her angry n i dun like to be angry ma. i oso wont take matters over the day i m angry. so i wonder y if i can do dat, y nt those young guys/ladies out there, learn to be more patient, understand each other a bit, give in when u hav to, dun create trouble out of a small matter? even if there is something big dat is happening, dun quarrel ma, calm down. sit dwn n tink of a solution, solve it, settled. there is nothing in this world dat cannot be solved, it is onli a matter of time n how u solve it.

anyway, when the couple left, my fren n i was talking about something dat whenever i go out wif her, there will be some happenings one. n beside us is another live example, haha. then when we were leaving, we saw another couple fighting again, haiz...

after dat, i went to her house for a bath b4 we went to buy my slippers again. i was looking thru her photo albums and saw a lot of interesting photos. a lot of makeovers which some were really very nice. when we proceeded to buy my slippers, it was ard 1130pm already. after getting it, we went to submit our university applications at yishun central. then we proceeded down to east coast park.

along the way we did joke a lot but nth comes down to the interesting part at the beach. juz as when i was telling her dat we could hav dinner/supper at the food centre when we reach there, i saw the food centre closed completely, lol... luckily we had our dinner at causeway point b4 we went down. when i was looking for the carpark, i drove in to mac area to park my car. i didnt know we had to pay when we park at the mac, Zzz.... no choice lor, the auntie damn fast, i haven got off the car, already started to write dwn n ask for payment... anyway, when we reached there, she was looking for a shop dat sells some house models, but it wasnt open at dat time. so we proceeded to look for a slot at one of those rocky areas (or stone areas). we walked quite some distance frm our parking area towards the pier direction.

then we sat down n had a long long talk for 2+hrs... she talked about her past, i talked about my past. but hers was more interesting n somehw, some part of it, made my heart very sour. i dunno y, juz feel dat some things she says, i m worried it might impact onto me. i didnt managed to say a lot to her, cos i dunno wad to say. i do hv a lot more things to say than last nite, juz dat it wasnt the right time i guessed. (of course i couldnt tell u all wad we were conversing about) but the whole nite was very "conversative" and i did know a lot more about her n learnt a lot more things dat i didnt/dun have the chance to experience. overall to say, it was a very fruitful nite at the beach.

at ard 4+, we went to terminal 3 cos she didnt go b4. so we walked walked n found out dat terminal 3 was quite grand, the design. but the viewing gallery was too far away from the main glasses. we totally couldnt see anything thru those glasses/windows when the outside is so dark n the inside is so bright. (maybe we went to the wrong place? but the signboard did bring us there ma) anyway, we didnt stay long as there wasnt anything much to see/explore. so we went back to east coast for the sunrise.

on the way back, my fren was so tired dat she actually fell very sound aslp in the car, leaving onli me to drive all the way back to east coast, lol... i was oso quite tired la, but i can still maintain my posture n energy. when we reached east coast, i parked my car outside the carpark outside the mac n waited for a while b4 we actually go see the sunrise. we decided to take a short nap in the car b4 dat. time passed n i woke up at ard 620am to see the sky getting brighter already. i saw my fren slping so soundly dat i didnt actually wan to wake her up. so i waited n waited, lol... until i tried whispering her name, she opened her eyes. (i was like thinking, i whispered so soft le, she still managed to hear me calling her...)

we went to the same place for our sunrise n i saw some beautiful scenery in the sky where the sun rose from. i didnt actually see the sun, onli the sunrays dat were in the direction towards the clouds. the clouds were filled wif the color frm the sunrays n it was so beautiful. below are some photos i hv taken. (arent they beautiful, wooo~)



after tis morning sunrise, we went for yakun breakfast n then went home le. she was again so tired n managed to fall aslp again in the car. haha... after sending her home soundly, i proceeded home n oso concussed soon after i finish my bath. had a very gd nite wif my closest fren, learnt a lot frm her and knew a lot about her. :)

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

After hearing my stories, i hope tat you wun look down on me ;)
things are not always as smooth flowing as i wanted them to be. I'm very well-prepared for those worst cases, but however, we are talking abt feelings and emotions here, which gets so out of hand so easily.
Ya... very tiring leh... i haben been keeping awake for dunno how long le lor...
Anyway.. hahaha.. tat nite was only on BGR lor... lol.. dunno y also, i still got 2 more parts not shared yet.. heehee

BB said...

hehe, dun worri, i wont look down on ppl one, no matter who they are. no matter hw u r or hw u feel, i will always support u one. orhhh, nx time my turn to share mine. then urs together if there is time, haha.